G'Day Everyone,

A lot of members have their "home" Communities as one or multiple of their Game Communities. For me The Hub was my Home Community and then Jelly. Both have different "atmosphere's" as do the others and this is normal. When you come here to King as a recent newbie, your "fresh eyes" see and hear things in a way that, naturally, hasn't been effected by time, frustrations, features and functions, you don't belong to a "group" and haven't developed loyalties or solid opinions yet, members personalities, comments and attitudes jump out at you because you've not been around long enough to get complacent, bored, settled "in a groove" or take anything for granted. Your fresh and excited and energetic and positive and inspired and motivated and in awe still, "the honeymoon isn't anywhere near over".

Observing difficulties, misunderstandings, confusion, frustration, negative and positive feedback, group dynamics can either draw you towards something or make you want to shy away from it and seek out something more productive, constructive, inclusive, exciting, upbuilding, safe and all the above.

Noticing something amiss or unhelpful isn't making it personal, especially when it comes to trying to improve something for the better, it doesn't matter who it is (that's just a symptom) the issue is noticing where a change is needed and trying to accomplish it successfully. Fix and understand the issue not get hung up in the emotion of the symptom and forget the issue!.

The same goes for giving credit where credit is due. Acknowledging others qualities, creativity and innovation and not being stuck on acknowledging how good "ourself" is. Commendation should not take a back seat regardless of position or title. Even those with a title needed to be thanked, appreciated and recognized, even though that's "there job". @QueenB does have a humble, gracious and respectful Communbity, infact the Standard of behaviour there should be the standard for every Community. This is not the case though. Those who behave well in her Community do not always demonstrate that same behaviour elsewhere, especially in The Hub! Even the Jelly Community has started receiving this "silliness" over the last few days, from members who've never bothered to visit or take an interest before. Thank goodness the counting to infinity games haven't taken over the discussion page there!!!

From what I've been reading in old comments in many threads, I'm not the first person to bring up concerns, it's been going on for a long, long, long time! You chose to make this comment, whether to a friend or not "Now we don't have the Superstar title.....Do we need to behave is my question?" and other's chose to reply to the editor comment and we have been told before in this thread "Please keep this page on topic its important 👍".

So when you sum up in total value, it's not personal E.G: "panic behaviour" from some, doesn't mean that you dislike a person for doing it, just that you don't like the behaviour and the affect it has. Same with comments, attitudes, demonstrated speech or behaviour.

So a reply to a comment, is just that, a reply to a comment. A PM with one simple question to get one simple answer and the facts and ideas behind them. Yes that would have been a pleasant, respected and appreciated action demonstrating adultlike behaviour and team spirit.

Now it's a Community matter in a Community thread about Community changes that are obviously long overdue, much needed, much anticipated, much desired, muchly asked for over a long period of time by old and new.

@alsto40 see!

Hi @Elsa I added the extra lines just to make my response stand out better.

@Chicken_Slayer

Be sympathetic to moralizing.

The person says that he has pain.

And you just fell under the "hot" hand)))).