why do we have to accept every time we send something

Candy Crush Saga,  Soda and Farm Heros Saga are making me want to quit playing.  Just a few weeks ago when you sent something back to your neighbor or accepted something YOU DID NOT HAVE TO CLICK IT EVERY SINGLE TIME FOR EVERY SINGLE PERSON when you did it.  I have quit sending lives and such on those 3 games because, just now playing candy crush soda (and these are people who have been friends from the beginning NOT NEW people) I had to stop and send INDIVIDUALLY 15 names ONE AT A TIME!!!.  Even the box has deleted the "do not ask again" and time and time again when you send something you have to send it individually even if it was sent as a group.  Going to quit playing all together if this keeps up!!!