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I could be wrong amismc, but your lack of received lives could be related to the test removal of the level rankings that allowed people to bulk send lives.
Whilst people are willing to bulk send lives they don't seem that willing to send lives one by one to their friends. Also it appears that some people don't know that it is an option to send individual lives. All of this could easily affect the number of lives you receive.