How do I get the drop down friend request to give me a choice to choose soda crush friends?

Nancy_Pence

the only choice I get is "all friends" and none of those listed play the game or choose not to?

aCe

You need to click on the little 'select all' box and that will unselect all of your friends. Then in the white bar you can type your friends names and tick them when they appear. I hope this helps.