You need to be able to decline a request for a life. In reading other posts this is a problem. Some players constantly are asking for a life. Two and three at a time. But then you go and ask them for one and nothing. I only ask other players that I have given lives to. You should be able to accept or decline If not that, then once you read that request then it should not show as a new message. Either one would be fine. But something. Come on King...........