Odus offers some parenting tips

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Odus remembers seeing an article not too long ago addressed to parents about the but why? stage.  He does a quick search and finds it. He begins to read it to Ron.

‘As your child grows so too does their inquisitive mind. They’re eager to learn, eager to explore and seemingly, eager to drive you bonkers with non-stop questions. You’d be hard pressed to find a parent who hasn’t been subjected to the barrage of ‘but why?’ questioning and it can really drive you to the edge.

Child: “Why do I have to have a shower?”

Me: “Because you are covered in sun cream.”

Child: “Why?”

Me: “We put it on so you didn’t get sunburned at the park.”

Child: “Why?”

Me: “Because that would hurt a lot!”

Child: “Why?”

*Mind explodes*

Once the ‘but why?’ stage is finished, be prepared for the kids to move on to the ‘how’ stage. Basically it never ends and why would you want it to? We need to remember that most of the time the constant questions are genuine attempts to gain more knowledge on a topic so responding with ‘Because I said so’ isn’t always the best approach. (I say ‘most’ because we all know that sometimes they just want to get on your nerves).

Here are some perfect solutions to the never ending ‘but why’ questions from your children:

Reverse the questions - Instead of trying to come up with an answer for your child’s questions, flip it back on them. “You tell me why" is a great way to get kids thinking for themselves and analysing what they’ve asked. Kids love when parents are involved with their learning and asking them why they think something is the way it is can be a great way to open dialogue on a subject. 

Get them to draw - Drawing is a great way to get kids thinking about why things are the way they are, rather than just seek the answers from parents. If you child hits a ‘but why?’ road block, get them to put text to paper to come up with some possible solutions. Doesn’t hurt that it also keeps them busy and quiet long enough for you to regain your composure.

Take them on outings - If your child is really stuck in the ‘but why’ phase, organise a special day out to somewhere that will fill their mind with adventure and information. It could be the museum to spur on their inquisitive side or even a trip to the local train station if your child is focused on transport and movement. The zoo is also a fantastic place to take your child so they look in wonder at all the animals and find the answers to their questions right there in front of them (while you sip on a coffee - win).

Sometimes you don’t know the answer, and that’s OK - According to some experts though, we shouldn’t feel like we need to have all the information available to our children, all the time. While it’s true your child is seeking information constantly, it’s also often just a way of them saying ‘I’ve got an interest in this and want to talk about it some more’.

If you don’t know the answer to their questions, build on your child’s interest and talk about the topic in a more general sense. If the interest continues, you could use it as a way to find out more information together, through books or internet searching or even a trip to the library or location which allows you and your child to learn about the topic together.’ (Source)

Suddenly Odus gets a text message from a player who needs help with a level. He explains to Ron that he needs to go help a game player and Ron thanks him so much for all his help. Odus writes his phone number down on a piece of paper and hands it to Ron.

“If you have any more questions, please don’t hesitate to contact me,” says Odus. “We need to take care of our next generation and offer them as much knowledge and wisdom that we know. They are the future generation who is going to take this planet to much higher technology. Who knows, we might all be living on the moon some day!”

Ron thanks Odus for spending so much time with him and Timmy. They say their goodbyes and off they go in different directions.

As Odus flies towards the next player who needs his help Tiffi calls him.

Let’s continue – Odus talks to Tiffi about his adventure

Start at the beginning - Odus answers some why questions about the moon

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Start at the beginning of the main story – Why … But WHY?

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